Jeff's Story
Back in 2017 I heard an influencer mention a book called No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and I felt a stirring within me. From a deep, hidden place a voice said to me "That's a book you need to read."
Ever the nice guy procrastinator, it took me another 3 years to actually read the book and begin to understand what the Nice Guy Syndrome is, why I had it and how it has effected my entire life since birth. My inaccurate beliefs, behavioral patterns, shame and anxiety made me live to a story that kept me small, weak, hidden and from living to my full potential. Dr. Glover quickly became one of my most important mentors.
Around the same time I found No More Mr. Nice Guy, another important mentor came into my life, Zan Perrion. His teachings and his Ars Amorata philosophy have helped me shape my life around the pursuit and experience of beauty and presenting my full authenticity to the world.
Because of the influence of these great men and their work, I have become an authentic, conscious leader in touch with my needs and my sexuality. That has allowed me to attract into my life more conscious, evolved, authentic women, more opportunities and more intentional and deeply connective relationships of all kinds especially with other men. The women have reflected back to me my deepest weaknesses and helped me turn them into strengths. My brothers have challenged me and shown me a consistent love a woman and the feminine is not designed to provide. These relationships have enriched my life beyond measure. I now have deeper self love and direction informed by my personal integrity that are governed by my boundaries and informed by my ability to set the tone and take the lead of my own life.
My life has changed so beautifully and so radically that I want to pass on what I've learned to other men. In 2023 I trained with Dr. Glover to become one of his certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coaches. In 2024 I became the lead mentor for Zan Perrion's flagship Essentials course on the Ars Amorata platform. Men's work and men's self development have become one of my top interests and passions and it is now my mission to help men who really want to put in the work to become everything they were born to be one initiation at a time. Approving of themselves. Pleasing themselves. Asking for what they want. Being fully authentic. Stepping into their role as protector, provider and one who leads with love and integrity. Owning their sacred sexuality and enjoying the hell out of it all along the way...